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Published by loveandspit on March 27, 2017

EP. 62: Feminism vs Marriage

We have a “Tip-of-the-Tits” to Mamoun’s Falafel, our unofficial sponsor. We read this article arguing against marriage, from a feminist perspective, and we each have some different perspectives on her argument. There is an argument that marriage, with its base in patriarchy, still makes life worse for women because they have to play the mother role in…

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Published by loveandspit on March 20, 2017

Ep. 61: Financial cheating and money dreams in a relationship

We did our taxes this weekend! Between doing taxes and reading this article about cheating on your partner financially, we figured we’d do another money and relationships episode. We have conversations to keep ourselves accountable financially, but those conversations are hard. Jacob can be compulsive when it comes to budgeting so Chloé does most of…

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Published by loveandspit on March 13, 2017

Ep. 60: Interview with Samantha Best- Curating art and magic vaginas

We are interviewing online art curarator Samantha Best. We tell horror stories from the bar/restaurant Jacob and I used to manage in St. Louis. Samantha tells us about her worst job experience working at and living above a pub in London. Samantha works as a curator, is getting her master’s degree and looking at the…

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Published by loveandspit on March 6, 2017

Ep. 59: Help! I’m in love with a crazy person!

What is “crazy” and when is it really a problem? There is a difference between an exasperated “I’m going to kill myself” as an emotional hostage situation and real suicidal tendencies and thoughts. How do you know when help is needed and when life is just messy that moment? Is it a pattern of behavior…

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Published by loveandspit on February 27, 2017

Ep. 58: The penis episode

The penis episode. Specifically, penile failures. There are many reasons why the penis won’t act the way you want it to. “I’ve been consuming poison and you’re like ‘you wanna have some sex?’ Well yeah, that sounds good too. Let me just finish this poison, and let’s, uh, get in bed.” Alcohol, smoking, anxiety, depression,…

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Published by loveandspit on February 20, 2017

Ep. 57: Male Shame and Sexuality

Jacob is changing. He tends to think more than “straight run my mouth.” We’re talking about a blog post called “Why does dating men make me feel like shit?” by Emma Lindsay. She’s arguing that she feels shame about her body and self worth when dating men because men feel shame of their sexuality, and…

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Published by loveandspit on February 13, 2017

Ep. 56: Interview with the “Black Buddha Rapper” and artist Johnny Hobbes

Johnny talks about his month studying a Buddhist temple, and meditating for 7 hours a day. He talks about how that experience affected his art and purpose. Ayahuasca was part of Johnny’s personal and artistic transformation. He’s been doing stand up to open up his rapping performance. Johnny Hobbes is his stage name. His real…

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Published by loveandspit on February 6, 2017

Ep. 55: The Valentine’s Day Show: Dos and don’ts of gift giving, oral sex, and lingerie

We’re incorporating Spanglish into the show more. How we used to celebrate Valentine’s Day and why we’re not doing it this year. We don’t really do gifts. There are expectations that come with Valentine’s Day, which is why we have to make it a point to have a conversation about what is important to each…

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Published by loveandspit on January 30, 2017

Ep. 54: Giving your partner space to have fun separately and how to know if you’re with the “one”

Chloé had a fun night of too much alcohol and karaoke. Which provides a perfect opportunity for us to discuss allowing space for each other to enjoy activities the other doesn’t enjoy it. Before mixing the wrong alcohols at a Karaoke bar, she went to see her friend Junshin Soga in his incredible one man…

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Published by loveandspit on January 29, 2017

Ep: 53- Discussing the relationship between sex and money with dancer and psychotherapist in training, Lauren Webre

Our second interview with dancer and psychotherapist in training, Lauren Webre. Delta is the math theory that Lauren would use to describe the amount of fun we had going to the burlesque show. We had a crazy double feature day of Antichrist and LaLaLand. Spoiler alert: we analyze the plot of Antichrist, a psychological horror…

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