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Published by loveandspit on May 22, 2017

Ep. 70: Four thoughts for making a relationship work

How did we last this long?

Published by loveandspit on May 15, 2017

Ep. 69: The “First Time”- How we lost our virginity

Chloé lost her virginity on Mother’s Day, which has triggered a discussion of how each of us lost or virginity. Why did the fact that it was also the season two finale of Grey’s Anatomy have an impact on Chloé losing her virginity. She was on top her first time, which Jacob was surprised by….

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Published by loveandspit on May 8, 2017

Ep. 68: Thoughts on both animal masturbation and the cuckold fantasy

Chloe got cast as the lead in a play written by former love and spit goes, Gabe Rodriguez! Jacob has been reading a lot about animal masturbation, especially in trees. We talk about the different definitions of “cuckold”. We will sometimes have fun by Chloe putting on a free cam show, with Jacob masturbating while…

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Published by loveandspit on May 1, 2017

Ep. 67: Interview with comedian Chris Keise

We interview comedian Chris Keise, and talk about sex, drinking and loving. Chris isn’t anti relationship, but he doesn’t think anyone exists who would be willing to put up with him and his lifestyle. He’s looking for sex and good conversation. Chris is very aware of what he brings to the table and Chloé asks him where…

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Published by loveandspit on April 24, 2017

Ep. 66: Hotel sex and slow orgasms

We went on a weekend getaway, enjoyed some hotel sex, and rediscovered the thrill of taking our time with getting to an orgasm.

Published by loveandspit on April 17, 2017

Ep. 65: How to keep a man interested in sex with the same woman?

We were listening to the Black Phillip show with Patrice O’Neal and there was a piece of advice given that we appreciated and wanted to delve into. How do you keep a man interested in sex long-term? “Pee on the floor.” Take the first step, initiate by action. We talk about how DOING something is…

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Published by loveandspit on April 10, 2017

Ep. 64: Coping with negative news stories as a couple

Chloé is feeling physically hurt by the amount of disasters that have been reported online daily. She’s had to ask Jacob to not talk about what he’s reading throughout the day because it’s too much to process and is physically painful. We’re using the strategy of checking in with each other once a day, so…

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Published by loveandspit on April 3, 2017

Ep. 63: How to talk to a partner who is having too many candy bars

How do you let your partner know you’re concerned about their behavior without being a jerk. Typically when a person is indulging too much in something, whether that be drinking, eating sugar, watching tv, smoking, the indulging is a symptom of something else that isn’t being talked about. It’s important to check in though, because…

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Published by loveandspit on March 27, 2017

EP. 62: Feminism vs Marriage

We have a “Tip-of-the-Tits” to Mamoun’s Falafel, our unofficial sponsor. We read this article arguing against marriage, from a feminist perspective, and we each have some different perspectives on her argument. There is an argument that marriage, with its base in patriarchy, still makes life worse for women because they have to play the mother role in…

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Published by loveandspit on March 20, 2017

Ep. 61: Financial cheating and money dreams in a relationship

We did our taxes this weekend! Between doing taxes and reading this article about cheating on your partner financially, we figured we’d do another money and relationships episode. We have conversations to keep ourselves accountable financially, but those conversations are hard. Jacob can be compulsive when it comes to budgeting so Chloé does most of…

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